tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post116562629111225047..comments2023-05-19T13:58:17.474+01:00Comments on Journey Down The Aisle: No Sex PleaseFavoured Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06799796628809329966noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-47550844318534695292010-11-04T21:45:24.894+00:002010-11-04T21:45:24.894+00:00wow,God be praised!Even though this is coming year...wow,God be praised!Even though this is coming years after but then when u were a virgin and u decided to remain so to honour God..that action has been noted down by God and the reward(s) even years after u will enjoy just becos u remained pure unto God,God be praised!<br /><br />Wow,you see what we ladies failed to understand is this that when we think sex is love we end up putting ourselves in tight situations and u knw,that was why u were able to move on in all ur other relationships.<br />Though,it is only with God and fearing Him we could be able to remain holy unto Him.<br />I am 26 and I am so wishing to be pure unto God till I am married by God's grace and by His will!<br /><br />Even after years,this post still rocks,God bless u!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-47508381601584207602008-05-30T20:34:00.000+01:002008-05-30T20:34:00.000+01:00Hi FG,great blog you have here...I totally agree w...Hi FG,great blog you have here...I totally agree with NSP(No Sex Please!)...Back then I had friends that were giving it up left right and centre...the pressure was really high but by the grace of God,I have been able to abstain till date...by the way then,I wasn't that close to God,I just wasn't ready to be anybody's statistics!lol...but now that I am(Close to God),I know that my body is the Lord's temple therefore it is NO NO NO NO to sex before marriage!<BR/>xxx...NoLimithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03879937849991946112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-80532323933345232832008-02-11T17:49:00.000+00:002008-02-11T17:49:00.000+00:00Oops, i'd commented before. However, i'll do yet a...Oops, i'd commented before. However, i'll do yet again.<BR/><BR/>Eventually, you waited....that's the beauty.<BR/><BR/>How's married life?rethotshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09863776336604295843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-50037810586132190952008-02-02T05:03:00.000+00:002008-02-02T05:03:00.000+00:00FG,your blog is an inspiration.You've only encoura...FG,your blog is an inspiration.You've only encouraged me to remain a virgin till the right man comes.One day i read someone's blog where virgins were ridiculed and i felt like whats the point waiting.Everyone's doin it.Why not join the fun.No attachments.just find a guy and do it.But the devil lost cuz i just couldn't try it.I remember i had told God to help me stay pure and.so it wasn't my will power.Moreover,am from a christian home and like you,i resolved to stay a virgin since the first day i heard the word "monthly period".your blog has made understand the importance of purity.Thank you so much.i'm goin to keep reading ur posts.very encouraging.Keep up the good work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-38266388927139277762007-08-07T18:39:00.000+01:002007-08-07T18:39:00.000+01:00wow....this is REALLY inspring, I just came out of...wow....this is REALLY inspring, I just came out of a relationship because of this similar situation....Immediately I told the guy I don't believe in sex b4 marriage....I never heard from him again, not even a phone call and his last words were "let me think about it and i'll get back to you" kai imagine...but it's all good...I know God will send one who sees me for more than my body :)<BR/>Your blog truly is inspiring, to know that you are getting married means that there are guys who want more than physical intimacy...congrats on your engagement!<BR/><BR/>LMAO @ "if u love me u'll give it to me", I mean seriosuly that's just arrant nonsense!<BR/>~CheersAfrican Gemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18105866982711881697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-44481236782550992822007-02-16T10:05:00.000+00:002007-02-16T10:05:00.000+00:00Congratulations on your incredible journey. I am ...Congratulations on your incredible journey. I am marrying a Nigerian woman who is also a virgin. We've been together for 2 years, with some break up time apart from each other initiated by me. The woman is driven and sticks to her value system, so as a man i can't help but appreciate her all the more. I found that each time we "took a break" I only felt like I wanted to be closer to her. Same thing for her. So that told me that our love was indeed real. I never pressure her for sex because I realize what it is she truly wants to give to me. I'm looking forward to it. Best wishes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-21711264276430945012007-01-12T22:40:00.000+00:002007-01-12T22:40:00.000+00:00My husband was a virgin.Unfortunately I wasn't. Vi...My husband was a virgin.Unfortunately I wasn't. Virginity should be celebratedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-25634703465914352612007-01-11T11:41:00.000+00:002007-01-11T11:41:00.000+00:00...u know what fascinated me most 'bout ur virgini......u know what fascinated me most 'bout ur virginity? U made the decision when u were just 13. For goodness sake u were 13 & u got something many (even older ones) still don't get now.<br />Not having sex before marriage is great but, why i'd subscribe to it (apart from God's) is that i a woman's pride & honour in her virginity (before marriage). <br />Oh woman, where is ur pride.<br />Oh woman, where is ur honour.<br />...no apologies but, if a guy loves you he should just wait (for waiting sake or 'cos she says so), he should strive to help u to keep ur pride, ur honour.<br />Bravo sis an excellent read. CheersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-68647955684158343452007-01-06T01:32:00.000+00:002007-01-06T01:32:00.000+00:00@All: Thanks for your comments everyone! The benef...@All: Thanks for your comments everyone! The benefits of remaining a virgin are so huge, I tell you. I think virginity should be more in vogue than it is. But hey, I'm glad I can encourage some of my fellow sisters out there!Favoured Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06799796628809329966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-43757690912156288282006-12-31T06:09:00.000+00:002006-12-31T06:09:00.000+00:00lmho @ jadedkiss. me too, sister. me too!lmho @ jadedkiss. me too, sister. me too!chainreaderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07015558747165123626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-74930173518159473452006-12-30T02:33:00.000+00:002006-12-30T02:33:00.000+00:00gosh i'm loving your blog more with every line/pos...gosh i'm loving your blog more with every line/post!<br />i am also against sex before marriage, because of God and the religious implication and stuff. All the reasons you gave for not having sex are exactly mine!<br />its abit different with me though, sort of. i mean, i think about sex and i'v got quite far with the physicals, but noone's eva made me want to actually have sex.<br />But i have to say still, i can't wait to get married so i can stop fornicating in my mind!!<br />Your blog is great, really encouraging. the honesty in your posts really makes u like, a role model for me. in that regard if nothing else.<br />muah muah muah!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-44378790276503115012006-12-26T19:26:00.000+00:002006-12-26T19:26:00.000+00:00You've inspired me! God truly keeps His promises. ...You've inspired me! God truly keeps His promises. If you sacrifice everything to serve Him, He will never forget you...reading blogs like yours, makes one realize that God loves so very much...Thank you for sharing.Miss Opekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09326213869157953668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1166407339901160322006-12-18T02:02:00.000+00:002006-12-18T02:02:00.000+00:00great post. sadly Ive never met any guys who under...great post. sadly Ive never met any guys who understand my stance on sex talkless of agreeing with it. Even the most spiritual ones wanted more than I was comfortable with. At 24 its difficult but by Gods grace hormones will not prevail. lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1166384014618037432006-12-17T19:33:00.000+00:002006-12-17T19:33:00.000+00:00I'm really proud of your decision to remain a virg...I'm really proud of your decision to remain a virgin till you got married and actually sticking with it!<BR/><BR/>Lol at some of the lame lines you've had to deal with ... guys!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1166379100983038932006-12-17T18:11:00.000+00:002006-12-17T18:11:00.000+00:00am loving your blog. waiting till you get married ...am loving your blog. waiting till you get married before having sex is not easy! even with God's grace, temptations are everywhere. thanks for keeping it real. hopefully, you'll inspire some young lady out there to make a good choice.<BR/><BR/>lmao@ "prove it to me by sleeping with me!" classic line! i thought only i got that!<BR/><BR/>ps. waiting 8 years better not be in the cards for me! am almost done waiting! i want me some ... (i had to edit!)chainreaderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07015558747165123626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1166363380790484672006-12-17T13:49:00.000+00:002006-12-17T13:49:00.000+00:00I was thinking abt the female-dominated comments u...I was thinking abt the female-dominated comments until i saw j. had spilled my thots already. I am not sure mosts guys wld like to see their replayed tactics being exposed...lol.Even good guys like Mr.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1166307318922026402006-12-16T22:15:00.000+00:002006-12-16T22:15:00.000+00:00Seems like this blog is only read by females (goin...Seems like this blog is only read by females (going from the comments). I am happy for you and wish you all the best. Just one thing; do you have to use the term "frogs"? Yes some people deserve it, but still.......?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1166125940703288232006-12-14T19:52:00.000+00:002006-12-14T19:52:00.000+00:00thanks for writing...not that i question my decisi...thanks for writing...not that i question my decision for abstinence, it just makes sense to me...so many things i have to worry about in this life, how will i add sex and all that steez to it, abeg im not ready lol.<BR/><BR/>but how to keep from falling into tempatation...lol not that i have been tempted and im almost done with kolejiya (maybe im weird/frigid lol) but how not to get into that occasion...so i think u covered that quite well. thanks lol<BR/><BR/>me too i lament, so im gonna wait for eight years to have sex?...boo hoo, i hope not.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1165978099629889102006-12-13T02:48:00.000+00:002006-12-13T02:48:00.000+00:00Guys would do anything to end up in our beds. That...Guys would do anything to end up in our beds. That was good strength.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1165946788157183282006-12-12T18:06:00.000+00:002006-12-12T18:06:00.000+00:00its a good thing u stuck to ur resolution.no sex b...its a good thing u stuck to ur resolution.no sex b4 marriage makes u see things more clearly and make better decisions.i wish i hadnt gone back on my resolveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1165891636633751072006-12-12T02:47:00.000+00:002006-12-12T02:47:00.000+00:00Wow - good on you for being strong and sticking to...Wow - good on you for being strong and sticking to your principles. <BR/><BR/>Idiot men and the excuses they will come up with to get some - lolll - prove it by sleeping with me has to be a classic!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1165837752639918842006-12-11T11:49:00.000+00:002006-12-11T11:49:00.000+00:00I cannot believe he said you should prove you are ...I cannot believe he said you should prove you are a virgin by sleeping with him!!! What ws he thinking!<BR/><BR/>Nice post, as always... and sweet!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-1165804545960222432006-12-11T02:35:00.000+00:002006-12-11T02:35:00.000+00:00Of course, my stand on this is the same as yours f...Of course, my stand on this is the same as yours for most of the same reasons. R/ships are complicated already, adding sex would only make it worse. Plus, knowing myself, i can't imagine how i'd feel if after having sex with a guy, we break up. Seriously, do guys still use those lines, "if u love me, u'd prove it by having sex?" That's just crap. It's so hard trying to keep ur virginity esp. if u have guys on ur case all the time, but nothing is impossible with God's help. Also in this sex-crazed world we live in where almost everything has some form of subliminal sensual msg, even ads. The raging hormones are always there, but so long as u don't put urself in any compromising situation, one will be ok. Can't wait to read ur future posts. Ur posts are so encouraging.Cherub (former Bijouxoxo)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02699901373929768023noreply@blogger.com