tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post2175964398896529290..comments2023-05-19T13:58:17.474+01:00Comments on Journey Down The Aisle: Positive Changes (1)Favoured Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06799796628809329966noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-90137833309568462032008-06-25T15:15:00.000+01:002008-06-25T15:15:00.000+01:00well, wonderful blog, i have learnt a lot, weldone...well, wonderful blog, i have learnt a lot, weldone!<BR/>However in this particular section theres something i don't know if i agree with. I don't think it's healthy in a relationship if all you always do is point at each other's fault. SOmetimes what we think is "fault" in somebody is just their personality, which doesn't sit well with us - i.e. different personality from us, so we think it's the person's "weakness" or "fault". One of the reasons I left my relationship a year ago was that I felt the guy did not appreciate who I am- although he was so nice and lovely and thought highly of me, however, I felt he did not appreciate me for who I am. I did not and I will never blame him for it because we had veeeery different personalities so what is good for the gooe is not always good for the gender - that is to say, he didn't like some of my personality and I dint like some of his' but they are things that shouldn't be changed. e.g. things like - you like to talk, must you always contribute wen they ask..." etc. Now to him, that was a weakness in me, but to me, it was, and it is still a strength of mine and I don't plan on compromising that side of me for any man. I believe the one for you will bring out the best in you (as you rightly pointed). The right one for me encourages me to be more vocal(albeit in a sensible way and within reason) and this has led to my job in broadcasting. <BR/>I don't think that someone bringing out the best of u should always have to do with them pointing out your faults. I think they best way to bring out the best of someone is to fuel their passion and encourage their positives. Obviously the negative shouldn't be ignored, it should also be pointed out but someone's negative sides is not always a fault. It's just the way they are. I would say to anyone that if a man is constantly "bringing out the best" in you by pointing your faults or criticising then you should question why you are still with him!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-32914886087370023462007-01-12T08:12:00.000+00:002007-01-12T08:12:00.000+00:00Jeez!! Im almost crying now. I think I'm suffering...Jeez!! Im almost crying now. I think I'm suffering for that and thats why thats why thats why...<br />Its hard..<br />I NEED to do something about it this weekend and tell him.:-(<br />This post has been an eye opener. Thanks a lot. and I mean it sincerely.<br /><br />Cheers gurl.Lowlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11776488077633005033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-24741414158452908652007-01-08T19:49:00.000+00:002007-01-08T19:49:00.000+00:00Mehn u r such a darling for this post ..women neve...Mehn u r such a darling for this post ..women never agree to been manipulative o ..chie .. I always act the way ur husband does o ..I wont even ja u any face until u come out with what is wrong with u..and I have also noticed that most women always dont like it when their partners come out and tell them their faults as well ..NaijaBlokehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097577095760929515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-6780083517868545512007-01-08T12:47:00.000+00:002007-01-08T12:47:00.000+00:00Nice one...everytime I read your blog..I learn som...Nice one...everytime I read your blog..I learn something new...which by the Grace of God..shall help me out in the future and in my walk in life.<br /><br />Thanks hun!!!Dimpleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09698547238590338080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-57957766439156274312007-01-07T23:03:00.000+00:002007-01-07T23:03:00.000+00:00Wow!
This seems to be very common among women, he...Wow!<br /><br />This seems to be very common among women, hence the rule of never telling one she's wrong.<br /><br />That hair story's really hilarious.<br /><br />I hope you do point out some of his faults too. Tit for tat, eh?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-32586642841776885192007-01-06T19:23:00.000+00:002007-01-06T19:23:00.000+00:00You're terribly right.... I can be VERY manipulati...You're terribly right.... I can be VERY manipulative too... <br /><br />I just recently realised how selfish I was and how things always had to go my way or I would raise hell... I'm working on these flaws..<br /><br />As always.. Nice post!Smoothvibeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06094792784521824696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-47265737248795839192007-01-06T19:10:00.000+00:002007-01-06T19:10:00.000+00:00you are certainly right girl... some of us are use...you are certainly right girl... some of us are use to asking things indirectly and been manipulative, which is not always a good idea. My boyfriend moans whenever am indirect. I'm working on it sha. Thanks for the insight...Ajikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00394566854368906042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-45385226746372637462007-01-06T16:51:00.000+00:002007-01-06T16:51:00.000+00:00one of the reasons why i love my bf is that i've l...one of the reasons why i love my bf is that i've learnt to say "i'm sorry" and to accept that i am often wrong. like you, i thought i was always in the right, but somehow, this relationship has changed me. i think that's a cool thing.<br /><br />i don't know why, but i have to repeat myself! i love your blog! now i can go.chainreaderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07015558747165123626noreply@blogger.com