Comments on A Girl's Journey Down The Aisle: Adjustments (2)

Hi Dear, love your write up. I'm going to invite y...

2008-08-24T04:02:00.000+01:00

Hi Dear, love your write up. I'm going to invite you to do a write up a new blog one of these days. Will tell you more about it once it's up and running. Your writings inspire me a lot as I'm sure it will other women aswell.

I would like the add the snapvine voicemail stuff you have on there but it's only allowing me attach it to the body of my blog and not the sidebar. How did you gt yours on there?? Will appreciate your help. Thanks!

You can say that again! adjusting isnt easy... I g...

2008-05-15T16:11:00.000+01:00

You can say that again! adjusting isnt easy... I guess marriage makes one come face2face with his/her selfish side. E no easy, but God dey!

lol..i feel u on the adjustment bit o...been marri...

2008-03-13T13:07:00.000Z

lol..i feel u on the adjustment bit o...been married for just 3 months and we are both adjusting! case in point- How and what to spend MONEY on! lol it's all good though! God dey!!!

I guess thats why it is good to know your likes and dislikes before u get married so that the shock od adjusting won't be too much. We can't know it all though. It's a learning curve

Looking forward to reading more :)

Aww this is soo sweet, I can imagine the whole adj...

2008-03-10T19:47:00.000Z

Aww this is soo sweet, I can imagine the whole adjustment thing. good luck with it babe. u both seem to be making the effort, which is the most important bit

After being togerther for 5 years and married for ...

2008-03-07T20:14:00.000Z

After being togerther for 5 years and married for 4, you would think we would have at least figured out how to share tv fairly? lol! No way! hahaha.

This was good to read, though. Thanks for sharing.

NIGERIAN CURIOSITY
IT WAS SO MUCH EASIER WHEN I ONLY HAD ONE...

..this is one blog i jus loveeee.God bless you...b...

2008-03-07T09:06:00.000Z

..this is one blog i jus loveeee.
God bless you...being reding 4 abt a year.

If there is 1 thing we learn in marriage its to co...

2008-03-05T19:56:00.000Z

If there is 1 thing we learn in marriage its to compromise n b selfless.
Looking forward to ur next post.

my dear after 6yrs of marriage we never adjust fin...

2008-03-04T08:29:00.000Z

my dear after 6yrs of marriage we never adjust finish..my husband went and got two decoders..so he watches his sports downstairs, while I watch my series and tbn upstairs..NOT a good move..couples should learn to compromise ...by having diff TVs we spend less time together cus after work everyone goes to his/her own TV..

hmmm...interesting indeed. Compromise is the watch...

2008-02-29T00:17:00.000Z

hmmm...interesting indeed. Compromise is the watchword...tought ordeal but it shud be joyous and willing for the one u are in love with. Love is a great motivator.

gosh.marriage is really not a bed of roses.i pray ...

2008-02-24T01:01:00.000Z

gosh.marriage is really not a bed of roses.i pray god would help me learn to compromise cuz i'm the type that likes having her way and these "adjustments" look hard.nwayz,good thing u r giving us an idea of what to expect.keep up the good work.

lol. yea, trust me there will be more adjustments ...

2008-02-23T19:01:00.000Z

lol. yea, trust me there will be more adjustments to come.. but it's a awesome journey tho!

lol that tv is not a joke, my ex and i were the sa...

2008-02-22T03:36:00.000Z

lol that tv is not a joke, my ex and i were the same way. one day i realised it was his house and his tv, so even though i thot he was rude for making me watch american football while i was his guest, i let it go.

Learning to compromise is a lesson that I think ma...

2008-02-21T20:15:00.000Z

Learning to compromise is a lesson that I think marriage will teach me and teach me well! I look forward to it and pray that I will be as flexible and open to it as you appear to be.

Good luck as you continue adjusting :)

Goodness, this is some scray stuff o...lol.I know ...

2008-02-20T18:47:00.000Z

Goodness, this is some scray stuff o...lol.
I know Love is great and all that but in practical terms, it's not so straight forward.
But thank you, because these things are not really spoken about. I'll make sure to make a list of all the possible adjustments that I might have to make so as to reduce the suprises..Keep the post coming.

Thanks...LP