tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post7853791378423658814..comments2023-05-19T13:58:17.474+01:00Comments on Journey Down The Aisle: Confused (2)Favoured Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06799796628809329966noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-85843924271929089982016-03-20T19:22:23.539+00:002016-03-20T19:22:23.539+00:00This is and old post but I came about something si...This is and old post but I came about something similar on www.inthemidstofher.com<br />Search the label for "through his eyes". It's an interesting read too, about crushing on someone who was not available and then they come back when you have moved on' dealing with the surge of those feelings of something you wanted badly once, now at your fingertips etc.<br />One of the most enlightening pieces I have read.<br />Opened my eyes to why I should free my ex and inspired my post "letting him go" on my blog.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13925616557301820098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-29370589865123235422010-11-04T22:31:24.525+00:002010-11-04T22:31:24.525+00:00wow,I would not but comment on this.it's a rea...wow,I would not but comment on this.it's a really great post becos I happenen to reckon with the fact that you prayed to God on ur feelings for the other n God worked it out for u,I am a living witness to that bcos just like u,I have men/guys on my case and u as human u just sillyinly loose ur head but when u get to a point u will say stop n guess what ,it is only God that can help u out then.<br />I believe through these posts of urs,I will learn a lot n even put it in use more,thanks for this post,God bless u.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-47635446495738015692007-08-20T20:30:00.000+01:002007-08-20T20:30:00.000+01:00I have to know, what was revealed later on...I have to know, what was revealed later on...Kpakpandohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15218042454773248874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-72807131233164390292007-05-09T18:03:00.000+01:002007-05-09T18:03:00.000+01:00Sisi it's time to update your fans!Rightly said; w...Sisi it's time to update your fans!<BR/><BR/>Rightly said; we have strong feelings for eachother. My ex and I broke up for reasons involving family and God. Long story i'd say. Good thing is I won't trade my Mr. for him now and that conviction keeps me happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-87043331565419697932007-05-09T12:53:00.000+01:002007-05-09T12:53:00.000+01:00Hi...First time on your blog and I must say what I...Hi...First time on your blog and I must say what I have read so far is encouraging. Goes to show that we are all humans and have feelings but we do not have to act upon every feeling we have. <BR/>Good work! Off to read your other entries :)alotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-79919623167544372542007-05-07T10:30:00.000+01:002007-05-07T10:30:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-53325161720304200512007-05-06T13:58:00.000+01:002007-05-06T13:58:00.000+01:00good work.good work.diary of a Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06065336956844638205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-30672759992173064682007-05-05T03:21:00.000+01:002007-05-05T03:21:00.000+01:00@Naijalove: Awww thanks! I'm humbled that you find...@Naijalove: Awww thanks! I'm humbled that you find my blog so inspiring. I pray that God will guide you in your choices too!<BR/><BR/>@Yankeenaijachic: Thanks! Hope work and school is not too stressful. I'll check out that movie when I get the chance.<BR/><BR/>@9ja Opeke: Girl, thanks so much. I love your comments. God lets us know when we are in His will through His peace of mind.<BR/><BR/>@Anon: Thanks for visiting my blog! And you are right - prayer is the antidote to all our worries and fears!<BR/><BR/>@Blogstalker: Thanks for commenting. You know it never occured to me that a guy would find this post interesting too. I'm glad you did.<BR/><BR/>@mgt: I can't answer that question. Maybe you haven't met someone that you think deserves your love completely. And no, I didn't school in Ibadan.Favoured Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06799796628809329966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-12002976981248897952007-05-05T03:10:00.000+01:002007-05-05T03:10:00.000+01:00@Azuka: Thanks for commenting this time! Everyday ...@Azuka: Thanks for commenting this time! Everyday I come to appreciate my man more and more and I just feel so blessed. Seems like a lot of ladies go through that confusing time.<BR/><BR/>@Truth: I understand your point. You had a much stronger attachment to your ex so it would be near impossible to break. Sounds like both of you still like each other very much, I wonder why you broke up. But you both have new partners now so they now (rightly) take priority.<BR/><BR/>@Lee: Thanks girl. God really has a way of working things out for His children. I'll keep an eye out for your story down the aisle too! Coming anytime soon?<BR/><BR/>@LM: You are right, very similar conclusion I got to in the end. I should have prayed about it from the start. Thank God He still intervened at the right time though!<BR/><BR/>@Diamondhawk: I agree my dear. We are human so we can be influenced by our emotions. The main thing is that we should put God in charge.<BR/><BR/>@Mimi: Yes o, I finally updated. I bet you want to write the next post?Favoured Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06799796628809329966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-28664950552680769802007-05-04T01:14:00.000+01:002007-05-04T01:14:00.000+01:00Why am I never like you people? Why can't I ever g...Why am I never like you people? Why can't I ever get hurt or have a strong connection with a guy?<BR/><BR/>For real, I can not have this kind of r'ship. Not becos I have been hurt in the past or anything shady like that in my past. I just don't love the way a lot of girls do. <BR/><BR/>I hope you did not school in Ibadan. If you did, I just might know you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-33564117215292247422007-05-03T06:06:00.000+01:002007-05-03T06:06:00.000+01:00I think most of the people that left a comment are...I think most of the people that left a comment are female...I just wanted to let you know that this piece is inspiring even to guys too. For us guys, we tend to get carried away by looks and "It is not everyone I meet or feel attracted to that is meant to be in my life" was a revelation that helped me deal with "Temptations." In my personal life too. Keep up the good work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-81972104567178417612007-04-30T23:18:00.000+01:002007-04-30T23:18:00.000+01:00I've been with my Mr for abt 1yr. I love him to bi...I've been with my Mr for abt 1yr. I love him to bits & I'm 100% sure he loves me, but sometimes I wonder if he's the one. It really worries me.<BR/>I came across ur blog & found the answer I've been looking for - PRAYERS!!<BR/>I felt at peaace afterwards, cos I know what to do about my worry.<BR/>Thanks! Love ur blog, very inspiring. Jennifer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-65877257123594499092007-04-30T14:25:00.000+01:002007-04-30T14:25:00.000+01:00This is an inspiring piece...and I must say your t...This is an inspiring piece...and I must say your then fiancé handled it in a very matured way. He could have got upset and broken the engagement off. But he saw beyond that situation and saw God speaking to him. <BR/><BR/>I loved when you said, <B>"Anything that takes away my peace is not God's desire for me."</B> …Yes, this is so true...for every situation we may face, <I>"The Lord will bless His people with Peace"</I> ~ Psalm 29: 11<BR/><BR/>Thank you for sharing this wonderful experience of God’s amazing love in your life...There is so much I can take from reading this... God never lets us be shaken or moved from our place near His heart. God bless you...<B>Favoured Girl</B>.Miss Opekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09326213869157953668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-37687328873085793092007-04-29T22:52:00.000+01:002007-04-29T22:52:00.000+01:00hey girl, missed ya lots. l have been busy too. ye...hey girl, missed ya lots. l have been busy too. yes o!!! temptations, yeah, thank God you made the right choic. Girl, watch saviour .........movie on onlinenigeria.com. very must see movie. love ya.Yankeenaijababehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15578298912840032898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-55827461933278284712007-04-29T05:40:00.000+01:002007-04-29T05:40:00.000+01:00I love your blog, its clearly an inspiration for t...I love your blog, its clearly an inspiration for those of us waiting on God and trusting Him to guide our path towards the one He has chosen for us.Doc Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01762338791821014523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-74370235654271629182007-04-27T03:37:00.000+01:002007-04-27T03:37:00.000+01:00:) so u finally updated! lol:) so u finally updated! lolMimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15124152457673752338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-60553429303670390032007-04-26T23:03:00.000+01:002007-04-26T23:03:00.000+01:00oh girl.. i am so connecting with this post... so ...oh girl.. i am so connecting with this post... so connecting with it... i think we all go thru these confusing moments..DiAmOnD hawkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09877446485994929578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-73217008192088364102007-04-26T15:33:00.000+01:002007-04-26T15:33:00.000+01:00You realised quite early that it was God who had t...You realised quite early that it was God who had the power for clarity etc. Well done!<BR/><BR/>I had a similar experience but much more serious - in the sense that although I din't date this person, the connection was, at one point, so strong that it began to get be an emotional competition with my significant other. Prayer helped put everything in perspective and re-established my commitment to my significant other. We really should depend on God for such and not kid ourselves we could handle it.<BR/><BR/>Well done!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-53073737719673177282007-04-26T13:52:00.000+01:002007-04-26T13:52:00.000+01:00Aaawww...look at that..Your MR. was truly meant fo...Aaawww...look at that..Your MR. was truly meant for you.. God sure has his unbelievable way of making things happen.<BR/><BR/>I can't even wait to tell my story..I'm still on the road, but I do know one day I will blog about the whole story on how it began..<BR/><BR/>Cheers.Lowlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11776488077633005033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-55845809649148563792007-04-26T01:35:00.000+01:002007-04-26T01:35:00.000+01:00One thing popped out to me: you said God helped yo...One thing popped out to me: you said God helped you deal with those feelings.I totally believe in His ability to leverage our weaknesses with his strength but it's kinda hard for me to connect with that statement.I still have feelings for my ex but I clearly have since realized that we were not meant to be. That's what God has helped me accept.<BR/>The last time we spoke extensively(4 mths to his wedding)he clearly admitted that he loved two women. The difference:he was committed to her, not me.<BR/>I wanna believe we shared deeper feelings than you and your crush did because though I am presently committed to someone, I know I'll always have a soft spot for my ex.<BR/><BR/>Truth is I love my Mr. so much more but I surely learnt a few good lessons on selfless love from my relationship with Ex-BF that have helped me nurture my present relationship, not interfer with it.<BR/><BR/>Great post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36069987.post-73573247537639591072007-04-25T20:36:00.000+01:002007-04-25T20:36:00.000+01:00Been reading and not commenting. You do have a won...Been reading and not commenting. You do have a wonderful, special man.<BR/><BR/>My mom told me about an incident like this that happened after she'd agreed to marry my Dad. He blew up when she told him about the old crush -- it wasn't funny. He later came to appreciate my mom many years later for who she is -- a very open, warm. caring woman.Azukahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09103198528329959203noreply@blogger.com