Sunday, October 15

The Sly Wolf

I think one particular guy is worthy of mention, one of the guys that tried to take advantage of me. So here goes:

I was at uni one day when I saw this guy who looked really familiar. He looked like a guy that attended my secondary school but was in the set above me. I thought I should go and say hello to him, but then decided against it because I didn't want to look silly if he blanked me completely. So I ignored him and thought nothing of it. I saw him two more times after that but nothing happened. Then one day I was on the tube and an old school mate from a set above me (let's call him HB) walked into my carraige (I know, what are the odds!) and I recognised him cos I had bumped into him a couple of times at friends' get-togethers. We chatted and he asked me where I was off to, I told him I was going to uni, he asked what uni, and I told him. He then looked surprised and asked me if I had seen the familiar looking guy on campus. I said I had seen someone that looked like him but I wasn't sure. He then confirmed it was who I thought, so I decided to say hello to him when next I saw him on campus. Later that afternoon, the guy (let's call him AB) walked up to me while I was on campus and said hi and he said "Did you meet HB on the tube this morning?" and I said yes. Anyways as the story goes, we became friends, we started hanging out on campus, he would take me to lunch sometimes, we saw a few movies together etc. All was well, except for the fact that one of my close girlfriends hated him. For no apparent reason. She just told me she didn't trust him.
One day, while we were hanging out as usual, AB asked me if I could cook, and if I would be willing to help him out with cooking for him sometimes. I thought it was a bit patronising, since I wasn't his girlfriend or anything. But to be a good friend I just might help him out once in a while since he was a single guy who didn't know his way around the kitchen. Then one day he came to campus and told me that he had just moved into a new flat and had no food at home and I should come with him, to help him cook dinner. I told him I was busy with coursework and stuff, but he pestered until I agreed. When we got to his flat, lo and behold, his new flat-mate had cooked dinner for both of them. They invited me to stay and join them for dinner and a movie, but I declined thinking it was getting late and I had a paper due in that I planned to work on that evening. So I left his house.
A few days later, I was in the library frantically trying to complete my paper so that I could hand it in on time when this AB guy turned up and said I should come and cook dinner for him that very day. I was so angry, I forgot to be nice. What did he think, I have nothing to do other than wait on him to keep me busy. I told him in no uncertain terms like "Are you the one paying my school fees? Am I here to be your cook? Will I just drop my assignment and be at your beck and call? Please leave me, I have work to do!". He begged and begged but I wasn't having it. He looked so disappointed that I almost changed my mind, but I didn't. After he saw that I was not coming, he left me to continue my assignment.

I got home that evening and got a funny phone call from a friend. The guy was in a total panic, almost hysterical on the phone. I was wondering why and I told him to calm down cos he wasn't making sense. After a few minutes he finally calmed down enough to ask me "Did you go out with AB today?", I said no, he wanted me to come and cook for him, but I was busy. My friend asked me again, "Are you sure you didn't go anywhere with him today? Are you sure?". I was wondering what all the fuss was about, until he told me that AB had planned to rape me in his flat that very day! AB had told HB (the guy I met on the train) about his plans to get me to come to his house, then he would lock me in and won't let me go until he had accomplished his unholy purposes. My friend had met HB that afternoon and HB had bragged to my friend about AB's plans. Said friend had been trying to reach me all day to warn me but my phone was switched off. To say I was shocked would be an understatement. Oh my God, I was so close to going to his house that afternoon! I could not imagine what would have happened if I had followed AB home that day. I also felt foolish, because I'm usually a good judge of character, and I had been blind to AB's character flaws that my girlfriend had seen. The guy was horrible! After I hung up, I went to my room to thank God for saving me. After that I imagined the nasty things I would say to AB when I see him on campus the next day. Funny enough I never saw him. I think he found out I had heard of his plans, so he dared not show his face to me ever again. I later heard through some people that he had failed his exams (he he he) and transferred to another university in a different town. Good riddance to him.... the perv.

Tired now, so I've got to end this portion here. More stories to come....

16 comments:

azuka said...

I's a good thing you had something keeping you. What makes some men think they can have anything they want [and get away with it]?

LondonBuki said...

He failed his exams... eyah... LOL!!!

Thank God oh... because if a man decides to overpower a woman, it's only God that can intervene...

I am coming back for more!!!

Lee said...

LOL.. Azuka.. some men are like that oh..

you said you never saw him the next day, good riddance. See God has a way of doing things and removing the bad ones out of our way.

Well i'm coming back to read more as a young single sista:)

Vickii said...

Sometimes you just have to thank God for the way things turn out, you could very easily have gone there that day.

I'm glad you didn't.

Nyemoni said...

Girlfriend.. you have been tagged... Check my blog for details!!!

Calabar Gal said...

Pheeeewww!! I was more than relieved. All those nasty boys in uni. Thank God he delivered u from them ans such unpleasant situations. AB reaped profusely from the consequences of the evil he planned to sow.

Overwhelmed Naija Babe said...

This AP self... a perv and a dumbass!!!.. lol

bhookey84 said...

wow , london boys are odikwa risky o

Anonymous said...

Oh my God - thank goodness you didn't go! That is just sick and it is totally disgusting that HB would go around bragging about it - he is just as sick.

OWIMIN said...

I would think you would also be concerned about your supposed friend "HB" who AB told about his plans directly but didn't think it necessary to forewarn you.

Mehn make god no make man pickin nack bad thing for road.

Anonymous said...

Imagine that is it by force.........This guy must have been an idiot as he didnt regonise the annoiting and caling on my sister's life......
eh eh nonsense upon nonsense.
God has cacth him.

one word ode. But it's not his fault.

But on a serious level as desperate can one get?

Favoured Girl said...

@ Azuka: It's amazing how many twisted guys are out there...

@ Londonbuki & Lee: Thank God o. I'm sure I had an angel watching over me that day. Otherwise I would have been on the menu myself ;-)

@1982: I thank God o! I can't imagine what was lying in wait for me if I had followed him home that day.

@Nyemoni: I have been tagged by Londonbuki already! Oh no....

@Calabar gal: He reaped it, good for him!

@Overwhelmed: LMAO!! He was such a dumbass!

Mwangi said...

Great blog! Fantastic stories!

Nsoromma...Child of the Heavens said...

My God! Hmmm...some of the boys at uni...the mid boggles.

Thank God for keeping you safe x

Daughter of Her King said...

WOW.. Amazing... thank God you stood your ground.. Initially, I was thinking wow this girl has good head on her shoulders chia she was not giving into any pressure.. Admirable..

Then I went on to read about the RAPE plan.. Wow thank God for his mercies.. can u imagine???

God will continue to make us invisible to wicked/evil men...

First time, already following and feels like am gona learn alot.. reading ur blog from the beginning. thanks for sharing..

xx

Daughter of Her King said...

WOW.. Amazing... thank God you stood your ground.. Initially, I was thinking wow this girl has good head on her shoulders chia she was not giving into any pressure.. Admirable..

Then I went on to read about the RAPE plan.. Wow thank God for his mercies.. can u imagine???

God will continue to make us invisible to wicked/evil men...

First time, already following and feels like am gona learn alot.. reading ur blog from the beginning. thanks for sharing..

xx

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